,This year, 2018 is one that I wish I could change, or turn back time.  This isn't much of my usual post - in fact, I wondered if I wanted to continue with Day Dreams; the sewing, long hours, etc.  There have been decisions to make, both personal and business, that I never wanted to make. Life, death, business, financial, memorials, survival, personal. 

The beginning of this year didn't go well. It was ushered in with my husband seeing our family doctor, then a referral to another, who in turn, referred him to an Oncologist. He was diagnosed with Adenocarcinoma of the Lung, Mets. It was supposed to be treatable, give him a little better quality of life than he was having, but the Cancer spread too quickly.  He passed after 5 months of sheer pain on June 22, 2018.  Before he passed, our best fur friend, da'LuLu passed after 13 beautiful years with us.  My father passed away May of 2018.  

I tried to keep sewing during all of this trauma.  It finally came to closing the shop for a month while I tried to gather my senses and get my feet under me.  There were a few people who were put out that I was closed but there was no way I could attempt to sew if I was able to motivate myself to get into the shop.  Was my passion gone? Would this be another change? 

NO. I refuse to let the shop go.  My beautiful husband always supported my business. He's my rock, my sounding board and sometimes my muse. This was something we built together and I wasn't about to let this dream go. After all, it's "Day Dreams" - named after our last name and my dream (to help others feel and look their best as is deserved). He wants me to be okay  - safe and secure.  Day Dreams will continue so I can feel safe and secure. 

This all may read a bit rambling, but that's okay.  I'm not 100% myself yet - and I shouldn't expect to be after less than 5 weeks since he passed.  There are changes coming to Day Dreams Sewing.  Slimming down the types of sewing perhaps, maybe more specializing in a few areas.  I'm not certain yet.  Nothing is certain.  It's like the Nebraska weather - wait an hour, it will change. 

While I try and figure out my way, remember that I always wish you success and inspiration, today and always.  I also wish you good health, both emotional and physical. Take care of you and your loved ones.   

Happy Holidays to you, Day Dreamers! Wrapping up the year and reflecting on the success and the not so successful days.  The customer base grew, new friends were made, some learning and a little bit of, "I'll never do that again!".  I'm happy with the results of 2017 with one exception: Terminology.  I'll explain.

Many times the question has been asked, "Do you do altercations?" My cheeky response would be, "Yes, on occasion.", but instead I answer with the correct term, "Yes, I do alterations.  How may I help you?"  

There is a distinct difference between these two words.  Altercation is a disagreement, an argument. Admittedly, I have had an altercation or two with fabrics and yarns at times!   Alteration is to change, and in sewing, it could mean changing the structure and/or size of a garment, thereby "fitting" the garment to the wearer. 

Mending is not the same as Alteration, because while you may be changing the structure a slight bit, you are only "repairing" the garment by patching, darning, accessorizing, repairing seams, and fabric tears. 

A Tailor "fits" a garment to the wearer by tailoring the garment, which is to say he or she is altering the item to fit the owner specifically.

Custom Sewing is just that - something specified by you and sewn especially for you. This can be anything from clothing to home decor, gifts, accessories, quilts, etc. 

Sewing is the craft of fastening or attaching objects using stitches made with a needle and thread. ... Fine hand sewing is a characteristic of high-quality tailoring, haute couture fashion, and custom dressmaking, and is pursued by both textile artists and hobbyists as a means of creative expression.             Sewing - Wikipedia       https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sewing

That about wraps it up for 2017.  I know it was short on posts, but as business grows, it is getting harder to make time for posting and updating the website.  I will keep my signature tagline in mind as I ask you to do - I wish us all success and inspiration, today and always in all we do!

I've been asked numerous times do I give sewing lessons?  Yes, I have and I will. What I enjoy most is to share my best tips with those who are at the beginning to intermediate level in sewing and needle work.

​Let's jump right in with sewing tips. 

Sewing Notions
When first shopping for sewing notions or needlework supplies, the temptation to buy it all can be hard to suppress. There's only a few notions or supplies that are truly needed to get you going with ease.​  Save the extra gadgets for the future when you are comfortable with your machine, notions and skills.

Sewing Tips
1. Keep your sewing area to the back and left of the machine clear and free of obstructions to allow the garment or item evenly feed through the machine. 

2. Learn to work with the basic machine feet that were provided with the machine. 

3. Look for patterns that are "Easy" or, "Quick". etc. These are made for beginners in sewing. 

4. Read all instructions printed on the envelope and pattern guide. 

5. Cut all pattern pieces apart and press before beginning to pin. Put away those pieces you won't be using. 

6. Keep your machine free of lint and dust; oil regularly as directed by the manual.

7. Use the internet to show you any "how-to's" you may need. 

8. Whether cutting a pattern out or sewing at your machine, take breaks!  Give your shoulders, neck and back frequent stretching. 

Needlework 
As with sewing notions, needle work (crochet, knitting, embroidery, needlepoint) can suck up the budget quickly.  Start with the simple basics, as simple as the pattern you are working.  You can save money buy purchasing an entire range of crochet hooks or knitting needles - buying one at a time can be pricey. 

Speaking of pricey - personally I haven't found a need after all these years of needle work to buy or use lighted crochet hooks.  Ergonomic hooks are a bit more expensive but worth the money if you plan on doing needlework frequently. Wood hooks and needles or bamboo are quite comfortable and smooth to use. Many lines of needles and hooks are priced and made for novelty but in the end it's the consumer's choice.  Look for what's comfortable to use and does not pick or snag yarns.

There are more tips and guides to be found on the site, or browse the internet when you are needing a quick answer to your questions. I am always available to answer any of your sewing, crochet or needlework questions - knitting is a little rusty :) 

With these tips, your new notions or project supplies, I wish you success and inspiration, today and always! 

There comes a time when even the prettiest of fabrics or yarns are saved too many times and a small bag of scraps turns into several full of yarn boxes or baskets.  Use some of these ideas for fun and quick stash buster projects while on vacation, or traveling to your vacation destiny (Authors are credited where names could be found). 

No matter how much or little yarn you have, if there are more than a few left, you have a stash.  There are dozens of projects out there on the Internet, but  I picked out a few that I believe are the most useful.  Like this phone wedge (pictured). It's crocheted (designed by Sher of Day Dreams) and comes in any color or combination of colors you desire.  It's awesome as a stash buster and makes a super gift! 

This sunny Kitchen Duo by Lori Zeller is a must for happy households.  No need to worry about the right colors - have you seen the real colors of Gerbera Daisies?  Color your world!! Make up several sets for weddings, showers, grads, new Dads or winter holidays. 

Shower scrubbies are always a pleasurable gift to give yourself or someone else.  Give a whole set with this Spa Set - Back Scrubber, Body Scrubber, Soap Holder, Wash Mit, Wash Cloth.  

And finally, there's no reason to not make a few stress balls! The pattern by Abigail Gonzalez works up quickly and she gives great suggestions for uses. 

That's a wrap on this post.  Remember, you are always invited to share your finds, ideas, tips and tricks with us in the comments below.  Until next time, I wish you success and inspiration, today an always!

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​There is a trend to pair the bobbin thread with it's mate on the spool or cone.  It's not an issue until the pairing is done with rubber bands.  The outcome on this is weakened areas where the rubber band is/was or broken thread while sewing or in the seam of the garment.

The effect is much the same as placing a needle in the thread to hold the needle....something that should not be developed as habit.   

​In the end, always best to do it right the first time. Short cuts are best left to clipping curves and corners. 

Whichever method you use and choose to call it, remember I wish you success and inspiration in all you do, today and always!

There are a few old sewing kits around that have the little black and white, two hole button included. You know the one, it had thread, needle, and two small buttons to replace on your shirt.  Have you ever wondered how the maker of the emergency sewing kit knew what buttons to include? Why does your Tailor seem to always have the right size and match for the button you lost? It seems there are standards (regulars) in the button world, but no hard rules to use them. Well, then how do you know what to choose?

​Decisions
The first thing you probably want to think about is what do you have in mind for buttons?  Will this idea work for the garment or item? Ask yourself if you need sturdy, thick buttons - or will light and small suffice? Do you want decorative or plain? Big or small? Functional or faux? Have you ever stood in front of the buttons rack and stared for minutes, taking them all in view at once? It can be mesmerizing and overwhelming. 

Choices
I've done a bit of searching on the question, "How many types of buttons" exist, and not one strong answer was found;  some people answered four; most say thousands! I'm pretty certain my own button box has thousands (Above: just one small bag of my "gem" buttons.). I don't know how many types there are, but if I have to name a few:  
Shank, Toggles, Flat, Frogs, Poppers (Snaps).  Some flat buttons have ridges, some are beveled - so that's not really flat, right? 

Let's toss another twist in the answer; styles of buttons. Oh, there are so many styles! Gems, pearl, covered, branded, plastic, glass, wood, shell, metal, and cloth. Some have two holes, some four with no absolute rule to be followed (Thank goodness!  I can't imagine having to remember which button goes with what!)
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So, you can see there are some decisions to be made before you make your final choice.  There are times when a random button may do in a pinch (when mending in emergency)., but you will ultimately change the button to the original set or create an entire new look with the change of buttons.  

What ever you choose, I wish your decision to be made with success and inspiration, today and always! 
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If you know Day Dreams Sewing and the owner, me, then you are quite familiar with my view on giving to others.  Giving to others never goes out of style and it never gets "old" to me.  Looking at communities, groups, organizations, etc. that need help is a good way to spend a few minutes break time. Please read on about a few of the groups who need seamstresses and crafters of all types to help prepare their items for giving hope and help to people in need. 

Who are the groups that are looking for creative helpers?  Where do I find them? How do I reach them? These may be a few of the questions asked when the decision has been made to give back - or create for free. 

Where to look?  Search online for interest groups using key words that you associate with (i.e., crochet for charity, sew for charity, etc.)  You don't need to be involved in a local group - creative giving of any form can be as individual as you!

Too many times I hear, 'I have a sewing machine but don't use it.  I did once and it got all (insert tech verb here), so I haven't used it since."  Yikes!  Don't give up after the first few tries -  I'm getting ahead of myself.  Patience - that's a practice I need to work on when I'm not sewing! 

First practice (or best practice) of sewing:  Patience.  I bet you guessed that.  Sewing can't be rushed. Sewing should be approached with patience or you will spend hours seam ripping, threading and re-threading the machine, fixing bobbin jams and replacing machine needles.

Break your project into achievable time blocks.

• Prepare your machine by making any tension adjustments necessary, cleaning out lint and use a fresh needle.
  
• Read the pattern or instructions carefully and familiarize yourself with terms you don't know. Are there steps you are unsure of?  Check with a friend or your local Seamstress - he or she should be happy to help.  An experienced Seamstress or Tailor can be fast with their work, but that speed was initially patience, then patience turned into confidence.  

Second practice: Confidence. Knowing your machine and tools for sewing is a solid confidence builder. When I purchase a new machine I read the manuals, and then read while looking over and learning about the machine. As for patterns, do I read the entire layout pages, terms, and review the pattern?  I do review the pattern to make sure all the pieces are there, review the steps (sometimes they through a curve ball in the instructions!) and read all the pattern pieces.  Approach your project with confidence that you know your machine and raise your confidence level with sewing by knowing what to expect from the pattern.  

Knowledge is Power.  True; however, let's not take that statement to mean you need power as  seamstress (unless you plan on developing a fantastic identity and costume to be an Avenger!).  Take in the form of your skill set for sewing. What can you do confidently?  What do you need to practice. with? Do you know your machine and can you confidently run a straight or zig-zag stitch? Can you set the tension properly or stitch length/width? 

Techniques and steps to follow are as important as the traits above.  Below are a few examples. 

• Follow all pattern markings;
• Pin before you sew - remove pins as  you go!
• Finish seams with zig-zag , seam tape or serging;
• Cut all threads from garment;
• Clean all broken threads from seams (if ripped seams);
• Pay attention to details such as sharp corners, rounded curves;
• Know how to top-stitch, stay-stitch and under stitch;
• Follow seam allowances
• Measure garment as you are sewing to compare to finished measurements. 

​Physical Care is an excellent practice to keep up with. Sewing places a large amount of strain on your neck, shoulders, back, hands and knees.  Taking stretch breaks is good for you physically and mentally.  Stretch your back, shoulders, knees, etc.  Walk away from your sewing area when you need to stretch.  You won't be sitting at the machine for an hour sewing; however, 15 minutes of sitting in the position to sew at a machine can be toll heavy.  A few tips: 

• Keep a small rice bag handy - small enough for your hand. Rice bags are made from scraps of jersey or other soft stretch fabric. Make a pouch, fill with rice and close tight with a whip stitch or straight stitch on the machine. You can heat them or freeze them, and add essential oil for a little relaxing fragrance. Open and close your fingers around it several times for hand strengthening. 

 

• Keep a calming lotion or hand creme close for frequent moisturizing of your hands.
• Stay hydrated! No, you're not eating the fabric, but you are inhaling the fibers.  After several years of sewing I find I have been inhaling the fibers that actually float off the fabric as it's being cut or sewn.  I keep water close and sip frequently to keep myself hydrated. 
• Pick a time to sew when you will have few distractions.  Beginning a project when the kids are coming home from school, or you have errands to run in 30 minutes is not a good idea. It will test your patience - trust me on this one! 
• Use a comfortable chair for sewing.  You're back and knees will thank you. 
• If your knee gets tired from using the foot pedal, switch the pedal to the other side, or mount it on the machine for using the side of the knee. 
• Ample lighting is a must.  LED's are pricey but worth every cent.  I had no idea how little light I had for sewing until my husband installed LED's.  It was like the roof opened for all the sunshine to light the room! 

Keep It Clean.  Your  sewing area should be kept clean.  Pick up pins and needles as you drop or find them.  Pick up dropped threads (they clog a vacuum brush), pieces of fabric and other items.  Don't keep food anywhere near your sewing project  - this goes for drinks as well.  If you do have a drink, keep it away in an area that will prevent spoiling the garment.  

Keep your machine and tools clean! They are investments to protect the same way you would protect and care for a vehicle or other valuables.  

That sums up some of the best practices for beginning sewing that I recommend.  What practices would you add?  Share your thoughts in the comments - I'd like to hear from you. 

With that, I wish you success and inspiration in your new sewing adventures, today and always!

I remember a time when a person could shop several fabric stores in an afternoon - brick and mortar stores.  Now it's an afternoon, late evening or early morning browsing through the pages of online stores. 

I found that living in a rural city can limit my shopping choices of many items, such as fabric. I know of two stores in our town that sell fabric, both having limited selections, so I taught myself to shop fabrics online. I've been purchasing fabrics online now for a little over ten years and want to share with my readers what I consider are the most important tips to buying fabric online. 

There are a few favorite "go to" online stores I shop first before digging into the pages of more obscure sites (I am not compensated in any form for sharing these sites).  What makes them my favorites?  Prices, quality of goods, user friendly sites, and accurate images/descriptions of the fabric I need.  Let's move forward with seven tips to buying fabric online.

1. Keep a swatch book.  If you are a frequent flyer of online fabric stores, keeping a swatch book is a terrific idea. A swatch book will provide you with a tangible sample of fabrics to choose from while shopping.  I've been building my book for about 5 years, making careful choices of what I include. Many online shops sell swatches for under $3.00, or you can cut a swatch from fabric you have already purchased.  Most swatches come with all the info you need attached, so I try to apply this practice to swatches cut from fabric already on hand.

3. Follow pattern suggested fabrics. The pattern designer knows what fabrics will and will not work with the garment being made.  If you are working with home decor, use keywords in your search such as "upholstery fabric" or "curtain fabric".  If you are putting several patterns together, make careful decisions on the type of fabric you want to purchase. 

4. Read product specs.  There is a wealth of information to be gained from the specs.  The fabric content, width, whether it's reorderable, cleaning instructions and more. Many times the specs will state what the fabric is best used for.  

5. Keep a sample window open.  It's usually a good idea to keep a sample of the color, dress or pattern you are working from open on your desktop.  Working with a split screen is helpful while shopping online.  Read how to work in split screen (Windows). 

6. Know the shipping time.  Assuming you are making a garment for yourself, once you have the pattern selected you'll want to purchase your fabric.  Some companies are slower than others in shipping, and keep in mind where the fabric is shipping from.  Shipping from overseas takes more time than shipping from Indiana. Knowing the shipping time is key to the planning of your garment. 

7. Use the glossary of terms.  An especially helpful part of shopping online is a glossary. For example there are numerous varieties of knits - which one to buy? Look for the glossary provided by the site or if one is not available use the glossary found on Day Dreams Tips & Tricks page.  

Many people ask me the question, "Which is cheaper? Custom Sewing or Factory Made clothing?"  My answer is usually the same - it depends on what you want.  The latest styles found in department stores and boutiques can be sewn (most times) or come close to it. However, is off the rack the quality you want or will custom sewn be more to your liking?

When making the choice or decision to have the garment sewn or buy it off the rack, there are a few factors to consider. 

Cost 
What is the total cost of the notions and fabrics to make the garment? What is the cost of the factory made garment? 

Will making the garment cost you time, or do you have the time to create it? If you are making the garment, are you able to make enough profit for your time? 

If you purchase the garment, will you need to pay for major or minor alterations? 

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Quality
Is the fabric you will use of high quality  - as nice as the fabric from the off the rack garment? Perhaps the off the rack garment is made from lesser quality fabric? 

There is also the consideration of the construction. Will the garment  you make wear long or will the factory made garment last longer. This in an important question to consider if the garment will be worn only once versus one that will be worn for a lifetime.

Practicality
Sometimes people will fall head over heels for a garment and believe it has to be possible to make it (DIY).  While you may be able to find the fabric(s) and notions at your favorite fabric shop, you could be disappointed in the outcome. 

Other factors of practicality are size. Sometimes it's impossible to find the size  you need in factory bought clothing, and having it altered to fit is an option.  

Be aware of whether or not the garment's construction can be altered.  Most garments can be altered, however, there are some that are impossible, leaving you with an item to sell or give away. 

Skill
Can you take on the project of custom sewing with the skill it will take?  Is the garment complicated, perhaps using tasks above your skill level?  If you aren't confident in your skills, don't take on the project. 

If you are sewing for yourself, it may be worth the time and money to make your garment if your size or fit are difficult to find in stores.  Lingerie (underwear and bras) are a category of clothing you will do well to consider learning to make your own. The fit is better and you can make the colors you desire. 

The Answer
It seems the question is still not answered.  That's only because it's all dependent on the answers to questions like those above. Ultimately, it's a personal choice.  Alterations can always be performed whether the garment is custom made or store bought, so that's not genuinely a factor.

Can you think of other factors that would sway a person between custom sewn or factory bought? I'd love to read your comments on the topic - just fill in below. 

What ever you decide the answer is to custom sewn or factory made, keep in mind I wish you success and inspiration in all you do, today and always!